Let’s Dex: How to Host a Gathering That Actually Feels Like One
By Dexter, Founder of Dexter Co
In a world where "hanging out" often means scrolling on our phones while sitting in the same room, it’s time for a social reset. Enter Dex’ing—a fresh approach to gathering that’s equal parts celebration and rebellion against the digital takeover of our lives. Imagine a night where your notifications take a nap, your group chats are ignored in favor of actual conversation, and the only “status update” is someone refilling your cocktail. Welcome to Dex’ing, where we leave the doomscrolling behind and reclaim what it means to truly connect.
What Is Dex’ing?
Dex’ing is more than just a party—it’s an experience. It’s about bringing people together in a warm, inviting space where the focus is on real, unfiltered connection (yes, that means no live-tweeting the evening). When someone says, "Let’s Dex," they’re inviting you to eat well, sip something crafted with care, enjoy quality cannabis, and engage in conversations that actually matter. Think of it as a grown-up dinner party, but with more depth and fewer awkward small-talk moments about the weather.
The heart of Dex’ing? Ditching distractions. No mindless scrolling, no checking emails, and definitely no doomscrolling over world events mid-meal. It’s about being present, embracing the art of good conversation, and making a toast to the simple joy of just being together.
Why We Need Dex’ing Now More Than Ever
Reclaiming Actual Human Interaction
Let’s be honest—when was the last time you had an uninterrupted conversation without glancing at your phone? Dex’ing is your chance to relearn the lost art of real conversation, complete with eye contact, laughter, and all the social cues emojis could never fully capture.
A Mini Mindfulness Retreat (But With Cocktails & Cannabis)
Dex’ing is an intentional act of presence. It’s about savoring flavors, noticing aromas, and truly appreciating the people around you. When you put your phone away and actually focus on what’s in front of you, life feels richer. And if you need an extra nudge into the moment? That’s where the fine cannabis and handcrafted cocktails come in.
Deepening Friendships Beyond “How’s Work?”
Dex’ing is designed for conversations that go beyond the surface. It’s about sharing dreams, passions, hilarious mishaps, and the kind of thoughts that don’t fit into a tweet. When people gather with intention, something special happens: friendships deepen, new ideas spark, and suddenly, it feels like you’ve traveled back to a time when visiting was an event, not just an emoji in a group chat.
A Celebration of the Senses
At its core, Dex’ing is a feast—for the taste buds, for the mind, and yes, for the soul. A well-thought-out menu, a carefully crafted cocktail, and a perfectly curated cannabis selection turn the evening into something that feels indulgent and effortless at the same time. Whether it’s a slow-cooked meal or a spread of shareable bites, food and drink are central to the Dex experience—because nothing fuels connection like breaking bread together.
How to Throw a Dex Party (a.k.a. How to Be Everyone’s Favorite Host)
1. Set the Mood Like a Pro
Think warm lighting, comfy seating, and a playlist that makes people feel like they’re in a movie montage of their best life. The goal is to create a space that feels relaxed and inviting, where guests instinctively exhale as soon as they walk in.
2. Curate a Thoughtful Menu
You don’t need to be a Michelin-starred chef—just put thought and love into what you serve. Whether it’s a multi-course meal or a beautifully arranged grazing board, food should be a highlight, not an afterthought. Pair it with craft cocktails (or mocktails!) and a thoughtful selection of cannabis—offering a mix of light sativas, relaxing indicas, and CBD options for those who want the experience without the buzz.
3. Declare a Digital Detox
Let your guests know upfront: phones go away at Dex parties. No doomscrolling, no live stories, just pure, undistracted presence. (Exception: You can take photos of the food, but that’s it. After that, phones go away.)
4. Be the Conversation Catalyst
Not all guests are natural conversationalists, and that’s okay. As the host, set the tone by posing fun, intriguing, or even slightly ridiculous questions to spark discussion. "What’s the best bad decision you ever made?" "What’s your dream job if money didn’t matter?" No small talk—just stories, laughter, and good vibes.
5. Savor the Experience
There’s no rush in Dex’ing. Take your time. Sip slowly. Let conversations unfold naturally. This is a night where you lose track of time, where laughter fills the room, and where connection—not notifications—takes center stage.
CYA Time: Before You Throw the Ultimate Dex, Read This
Alright, before you send out invites and start crafting the perfect cocktail, let’s set a few things straight: I’m not a doctor, therapist, or life coach—just a guy who knows how to throw a damn good gathering.
If you’re planning to partake in cannabis at your Dex party, know your limits and respect your guests' preferences. Not everyone wants to get high, and that’s perfectly fine. Offer CBD options, low-dose THC, and plenty of non-cannabis choices so everyone feels comfortable. And please, for the love of all things good, do not let your guest who “doesn’t feel anything yet” eat another edible too soon. We all know how that ends.
And finally—**drink responsibly, indulge mindfully, and, above all, DO NOT decide to give yourself bangs or impulse-buy a pet online after a Dex party. No good ever comes from that. Ever.
Let’s Dex.
In a world of fleeting interactions and digital distractions, Dex’ing brings us back to what matters most: connection, conversation, and the simple joys of being present. So, the next time someone says, "Let’s Dex," accept the invitation. It’s your chance to disconnect from the virtual and reconnect with the real—one shared meal, one good drink, and one meaningful conversation at a time.
Let’s Dex,
Dexter
Founder, Dexter Co
